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Ignite Your Spark - Real Life Ed.


When the Odds Are Against You… But You Don’t Play by the Odds
Some lessons — okay, a lot of lessons — can’t be taught. They have to be lived. And this past weekend, I got to WATCH one of those lessons unfold right in front of me. Buckle up, because this mama went through every emotion known to humankind. Back in November, my daughter literally jumped into something brand new. She was invited to cheer on The Selects All Star Elite Cheer Team. Mind you — this child had never cheered a day in her life. Unless you count cheering ME on at
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Mar 244 min read


Seriously Human.
Listen … when you can’t find the right coffee lid for your to‑go mug, or you get in the car and realize you’re still wearing your slippers, it is exactly going as planned. Even when you back down the driveway, "tap" the garbage can with your bumper, and then stop abruptly because you suddenly remember your coffee is still on top of the car . YES. Congratulations! You are so incredibly human. And God just handed you a whole handful of silly things to laugh about so you would
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Feb 214 min read


Crachit: the art of not starting over
I don’t crochet. I crachit (Krah-ch-it). It’s the term I made up to describe my own twist on crochet, because what I do with yarn and a...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Sep 14, 20252 min read


You Can Exit the Stage, But You Can’t Escape the Calling
I have no idea what I was saying in this picture, but my friend snapped this action shot of me last weekend as I spoke to a packed room...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Aug 6, 20253 min read


Hard Joy: Dig for it. And Honestly, I’m Good with That.
For anyone who's had to dig for joy from the start, this one's for you. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking about joy, not in the bright,...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Jul 12, 20255 min read


The Side-Eye of Healing: Notes from Middle Grief
Because sparkle and sorrow can sit in the same chair 🩹It’s Just a Paper Cut (Right?) OK. So, I’ve been writing a lot in my head. Like…...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Jul 1, 20255 min read


The Spark Behind the Sadness: A real-time reflection on miscarriage, grief, and the sacredness of well, whatever it is you need.
Day One: When Silence is Louder Than a Heartbeat I found out yesterday that my baby doesn’t have a heartbeat. At 40 years old, I didn’t...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Jun 19, 20256 min read


How Collapsing on the Couch Became My Greatest Life Hack
I just woke up - not by choice but by my bladder screaming at me - and realized—wait, I am on the couch in the middle of a quiet house...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Jun 12, 20253 min read


The OG Girl Tribe: What Women Can Learn from Elephants🐘
Alright, buckle up, because this is about to be the ultimate sisterhood manifesto . If there were ever an example of how women should...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Jun 5, 20253 min read


Who Cares? A Reminder That You’re Doing Just Fine. Pinky Swear.
Life can sometimes feel like being caught in a tornado of to-do lists, career crises, and family drama. It’s like trying to juggle...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
May 29, 20252 min read


The Busy Girl's Guide to doing life Smarter (And Finding More Joy!)
Top Must Haves: · Potato Masher – because smashing spuds by hand is so last century. · Instant Pot – the magical cauldron for...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
May 15, 20253 min read


From Hustle & Hurry to Holy Rest: My Formula that will Reclaim Your Time
S o, the first clue that God—is trying to have a chat with me is when my throat starts feeling like I've swallowed a porcupine, followed...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Apr 29, 20253 min read


Reignite & Reset- Holy Week Edition
W hat does it actually mean to ignite your spark? I talk about it, I wear it, I speak it—it’s everywhere that I am. But what is it,...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Apr 16, 20253 min read


Sacrifice Detox: Productivity Reimagined
What Are You Sacrificing? Are you trading one thing for another? Probably. From a young age, we’re told to work hard, persevere, and make...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Apr 10, 20252 min read


It's Not Procrastination; It's Just Advanced Prioritizing!
It's not procrastination if the alternative task you choose to prioritize has greater value or impact. So, I don’t procrastinate—I...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Apr 4, 20254 min read


Salty Secrets and My Bean Scene: Authenticity Always Wins
You just need to read this. That's all. :-)
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Mar 21, 20254 min read


Owning My Style: Why I am Proud to Shine on My Own Terms
Trends come and go, but nothing beats feeling like you. I’m sticking to what makes me shine—and how you can never be outdated!
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Mar 13, 20253 min read


What my Good Ol' Days Taught Me
Ah, the unforgettable blend of high school hallways! Imagine the mix of freshly sharpened pencils, paper, and the ever-present scent of...
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Mar 6, 20253 min read


"Confessions of a Mom Who Forgot to Teach Shoelaces"
You're doing a great job- even if you miss a few things along the way. They will be fine, you will be fine, and everything will be fine. :-)
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Feb 28, 20252 min read


My Favorite Mug and my Ability to Dream: Evolution Edition
Just because you can't see the dream anymo
Sarah-Elizabeth Pilato
Feb 21, 20253 min read
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